The one time I bought Sage a workbook I think he was about nine. He was more suspicious than enthusiastic and thumbed through it listlessly. He gave a half-hearted go at a couple of the exercises, and flipped more pages.
Suddenly he came fully to life.
He had stumbled upon a sequencing exercise titled “Let’s Build a Robot”. The “instructions” were out of order and the activity was simply to rearrange the text into the proper order. I was surprised how excited he was, but felt a little smug in seeming him get so stoked on a workbook. See? This can be fun!
I think you see where this is going.
He read for a minute, flipped forward then back a couple of pages, and then looked at me confused.
“The instructions are incomplete. I think there’s a page missing or something. I don’t get how you’re supposed to be able to build a robot from this.”
When I explained to him that you didn’t really build a robot but just rearranged the incomplete instructions he looked at me with a face that said, in essence:
“That is the lamest thing I have ever heard.”
He never touched the workbook again.
There are many ways to learn. We learn by wondering, reading, creating, questioning, exploring, watching.
And here, in our world, we learn mostly by doing.
Does this mean workbooks are bad? Not at all. Lupine loves to have math worksheets printed out and can lose herself for hours in a workbook filled with puzzles and exercises.
Because learning is not a one-size-fits-all experience.
And I believe – with the right attitude and presence of mind – learning happens all the time.
So when some friends who go to school asked Lupine what she did all day and she replied with a shrug, “Nothing, really.” I have two responses. First, I freak out a teensy bit that maybe I’m not doing enough after all (interwoven with “I really hope they don’t tell their parents she said that”). Second (after I calm myself down) I realize that learning is such a natural part of her life that she doesn’t even notice it happening.
Without ever “doing school”.
Just through curiously, wakefully engaging in this life.
Sage did end up building a robot not long after that fated workbook experience. It was as satisfying a project as you could expect. He recently found a second-hand robotic vacuum that he is taking apart to see if he can reuse parts from it to build a customized robot as well.
And the learning continues.
In so many ways.
In the past few weeks, as it turns out, we have spent time experimenting with cheesemaking, blacksmithing, knitting, sewing, pattern design, meat-grinding, confectionery, woodworking, electronics, small business launching, and the buying-and-cooking-of-veggies-we-have-never-tasted-before.
And it turns out that “nothing” that we do all day? It’s really something after all.
4 thoughts on “Robots and worksheets”
Ah, the meat-grinding…..We’ve done that for homeschool too. And I always laugh about the kids in Biology class disecting frogs…..my boys can skin/gut a deer now better & quicker than my husband. 😉
This sounds so wonderful…I couldn’t stand workbooks as a child, and not only did I go to typical school but my parents made me do additional workbooks over the summer! We can’t afford private school and I don’t think we’ll be able to homeschool. It breaks my heart that our kids will be learning in a one-size-fits-all environment, so I’m trying to figure out ways to supplement education outside of school to foster a love of learning. I have a bit of time yet, but it’s stressful to me that my daughter’s natural curiosity may be squelched in school the way that mine was. She might love it…but I’m anxious about what to do if she doesn’t fit that mold.
Do you recommend a robot kit? Thanks!
My daughter is just 6 and I’m unschooling her. Our days are filled with baking, cooking, ballet videos, fort building, pretend play, outside play/work, lots of read alouds…..and I know in my heart it is enough. But as soon as I visit facebook or instagram or even go out and connect with others, I feel like it’s not…And then, I read one of your posts. I am so very grateful that you have walked this path before me and are here to share your wisdom and guidance. I’m so thankful that I can return to your blog when I’m feeling like I’m not doing enough and that our way of schooling is a disservice to my kiddo. It can be hard to follow your heart when the world is telling you not to. Thanks for being someone who reminds me that following my heart, and my daughter’s, is exactly what we should be doing.