You have a superpower.
And every day you get a chance to use it.
It's the power to change the world.
By choosing play over pressure.
Peace over violence.
Kindness over power.
Compassion over neglect.
Forgiveness over blame.
Every. Single. Day.
As a parent you possess the power to change the world.
One day at a time,
one child at a time,
one interaction at a time.
And the world transforms.
But that does not mean you will be perfect.
You will falter.
You will yell.
You will curse.
You will break.
You will forget just for a moment how amazingly powerful you are and you will return to shame, anger, manipulation, and control.
To all of us.
In our own way we each create own reasons for regret.
And then you have the chance to choose forgiveness again. This time for you.
No one is perfect.
Not your partner, not your child, not your mother. And not you.
We're all stumbling along, learning as we go.
Doing our best.
We are all flawed.
It's part of the plan. It gives us good work to do with our time here on earth.
Allow yourself your imperfections.
Allow them to your child as well.
And yes, allow them even to that other mother you see on the street who's come undone and is yelling and pulling her little one roughly along.
She needs it most of all.
And then, remember your power.
To shape the world, for good.
It takes courage to forge a new path.
To reach for peace when you were taught reach for power.
To reach for compassion when last time you faltered.
To reach for understanding even in frustration. Or exhaustion. Or anger.
You have the power to change the world. And also to change yourself.
And the harder that is for you, the more deeply I honor your work.
Onward, mama. Onward.
You carry the world in your arms.
It's your superpower.
Originally published in 2014.
5 thoughts on “Your superpower”
This is awesome! Thanks for (re)sharing. I desperately needed these reminders today.
This brought a giant smile to my face. Thank you!! Shared on facebook.
Love this! <3 I need to remember this more often.
Lovely! We all need to keep this in mind as mothers, women, human beings.
Superb! Coincidentally, I had just submitted a superpower-themed “dekaaz” on another’s rachel’s site: http://rachelbagby.com/blog/ a day or so before reading this. I stumbled upon that site a while back after revisiting this site: womenshare.org. I’m sure you will recognize a bunch of people who attended this event. The little dekaaz (10-syllable poemette) i sent went:
or making your cape
… in other words, discovering and developing your superpower and finding a way to share your gift to the world. And, as you, and every superhero knows, you must “always trust your cape.”